David DeAngelo – On Being A Man

Arichive : David DeAngelo – On Being A Man
Is It True That A “Cave Man”
From Ten Thousand Years Ago
Would Be MUCH Better Than YOU
At Attracting Hot, Sexy Women?
Dear Friend,
Success with women is a COMPLETE mystery to most men.
But it probably wasn’t a big mystery to one of your grandfathers before you… ten thousand years ago.
In fact, I’ll bet that men who lived ten thousand years ago were FAR better with women than we are today, on average.
If you’re interested in learning how the secrets of a “cave man” who could steal your woman… can make you FAR more successful with women TODAY, then listen up. I’m about to tell you one of the most important stories you will ever hear…
Important note:
After 5 long years of learning how to become successful with women and dating, and 5 more years of teaching other men to do the same… I have finally discovered THE SECRET to why some men have unbelievable success with women… while most struggle and fail.
I’ve hidden this secret in the story that I’m about to tell you.
And here’s the story. Pay close attention if you want to learn how to attract more women…
You are an adolescent man living thousands of years ago… in a group with a hundred others.
In your group, there is a dominant, charismatic, powerful male leader. You admire and respect him, but also fear him. Every time you see him, you avert your gaze to avoid direct eye contact.
Lately, you’ve noticed that you’re thinking more and more about becoming a leader. You can imagine yourself being admired by others, and being the one to lead the hunts for food.
You’ve also noticed that your temper and emotions are becoming harder to control. Something seems to be happening inside of you that is making you more and more irritable. You’ve also noticed hair growing on your face, and muscles growing on your body.
One day, while you’re walking alone in the trees, you see a familiar waterfall, with a pond below. In the pond is a beautiful young woman you’ve admired for many years… bathing.
For some reason, on this day, she appears different to you. Today you have an unfamiliar feeling inside. At this moment, you feel an overwhelming desire to be with her… in a way you don’t understand.
As you approach her, she turns and sees you. For a split-second, all of time seems to freeze… as you look into each other’s eyes. It’s in that moment that you realize that she is feeling something as well. Maybe not the same thing as you, but something that is her version of how you feel.
You walk toward her, and she walks toward you. You don’t know what’s about to happen, but you can feel something moving you forward… a drive that seems to be coming from deep within you.
As you get closer to this beautiful creature standing in front of you, she smiles… and looks at your face.
You reach a hand out to touch her arm. This time, the touch feels very unusual. You breathe deep. Your pulse begins to quicken. You can feel the hairs on your body stand up in waves.
You are so focused on this timeless dance that is unfolding, that you don’t notice a rustling in the trees behind you.
Your interest in this girl has not gone unnoticed.
All at once, you sense the presence of others. You spin your head around to see who is behind you.
And there stands the leader of your group, along with many other adults, including your father and mother.
An instinctive sense of fear strikes deep into your stomach… your eyes widen… and your throat becomes constricted and dry. You sense that you are in great danger, even though you’ve done nothing wrong.
The leader of your group is looking directly at you, with a look that makes you fear for your life.
“The Boy Must Die!” he yells.
Your mother runs to him, protesting… “No, he’s just a boy, he’s done nothing wrong!”
But her cries fall on deaf ears.
The leader of your group, along with several other men, take you away from this beautiful girl, and drag you into the forest. You are blindfolded, and taken to a secret cave… a cave that you’ve only heard stories about.
Over the next day, four other young men are brought to the cave as well. It seems that all of you are to die.
The men from your group, including the leader, come into the cave. They are painted with strange symbols on their faces and bodies.
They look sternly at the group of young men… and the leader says “It is time for the boys to die.”
One-by-one, they take each boy, force his mouth open, and pour a putrid liquid down his throat. Next, they rub a sticky mixture of fruit pulp on each boy… from head to toe.
The men leave.
You are alone with your friends, all preparing to die, in mortal fear.
You here the frightening sound of large logs being stacked across the front of the cave, sealing you and your friends inside. At this moment, you realize that you are going to die without ever knowing what would have happened with that beautiful girl you were standing in front of just yesterday.
You can feel the poison that the men gave you taking effect. Your stomach is beginning to hurt. As you become more and more afraid, your mind begins to create frightful nightmares you’ve never imagined before…
You don’t realize it, but in the liquid the men poured down your throat was a drug that is now taking over your mind. It’s making the nightmares far worse that anything you could ever experience during normal sleep.
As you and your friends begin to cry and scream with fear, you begin to notice strange sensations all over your body.
You reach down to touch, and feel something moving on your skin. You realize that large ants have been attracted by the fruit on your body, and are coming in large numbers to eat…
You try to brush them away, but there are far too many of them. It seems like the more you swat at them, the more they tear away at your flesh.
And this is just the beginning.
After what seems like weeks of this incredible psychological and physical torture, you begin to realize that you are probably dead. You and the other boys have cried and screamed for so long… and the ants have eaten so much of you… that there is no chance that you’re alive.
In reality, it’s only been one night, but the drugs have made it seem much longer.
A hand pulling you up by the arm wakes you. You open your eyes… and there is the leader of your group… pulling you up… standing over you… his face painted with a new and different design.
“Am I dead?” you ask.
“Yes”, he says.
“The boy is dead, and the man will now live.”
Over the next several days, the men initiate you into manhood. You are taught the secrets and qualities of being a man, and you are tested severely.
One night, as you are sitting around a fire with the other men, you are told ghost stories… afterwards the men take you into the woods, and circumcise you… with only a stick in your mouth to bite for the pain.
When you are finally brought back to the main group to live, your mother seems very different. Instead of opening her arms to you, she seems to be staying away.
You are told that you will no longer sleep in the house with your mother. You will be living with the MEN now.
Over the next several years, you are taught how to live as a man, how to take care of yourself and your group, and how to use your natural talents to attract a woman and live a fulfilled life.
The End.
…Were you able to find the secret?
If you missed it, fear not. It’s not easy to spot… both in the story, and in the “real world” where you can use it to meet and attract the women that you want.
But now… I’d like to spell it out for you… and show you how you can use it to dramatically improve your success with women, starting immediately…
The “Secret Reason” Why Some Men Have Success With Women Without Trying… While Most Struggle And FAIL…
I’d like to tell you another story…
This one is about me… but it just might be about YOU, too…
Have you ever blown it with a woman that you really liked?
Maybe she was even interested in you in the beginning… but you somehow managed to screw it up anyway?
I know I have.
And after it would happen, I would rack my brain for weeks trying to figure out what I did wrong.
I would act out every possible scenario in my mind…
“What if I had said this to her instead of this?”
“Maybe I should have called her on Thursday instead of waiting 2 days… Did it look like I was playing games? Or maybe I should have waited 3?”
“Did I miss my chance to make a move? Maybe if I had just done it when we were at ___, everything would have turned out alright…”
I would go through these scenarios over and over again—in my mind and to my friends… no doubt driving them nuts.
I would eventually figure out where I thought I had made my mistake… and swear not to ever make that same mistake again.
And then I’d meet another special woman…
I would promise myself that THIS TIME… I was going to do it right.
And guess what happened?
You got it. I would manage to screw it up again.
I went through this painful cycle MANY times.
If you’re like most guys, you’ve been there… and you know how much it sucks.
It feels like things might NEVER work out for you with a woman you are REALLY interested in… and that you might be forced to “settle” for someone you’re not really into… or no one at all.
When we blow it with a woman we like, we tend to attribute our screw-ups to the “little things”… because it feels like that is where we made our mistakes.
We tend to analyze these things to death – “Maybe I should have waited for her to call me” or… “Maybe I should have made a move here” or… “If only I wouldn’t have said ___”, etc…
Well, I never realized it at the time, but there was something MUCH BIGGER going on in these situations than the “details”…
Yes, our screw-ups probably WERE the result of one or more of these mistakes…
Maybe we called at the wrong time or too many times… maybe we missed our opportunity to make a move… or maybe the “wuss” slipped out and we said or did the wrong thing…
But the real problem here is not the mistakes themselves…
Our problem is the REASON WHY we keep on making these mistakes.
I’m sure you’ve noticed how guys who are “naturally” successful with women don’t seem to “screw it up” very often…
It’s like they can grab the attention of any woman they choose— and keep her interested as long as they want to—without needing any “techniques” or lines to help them do it.
But how?
How do they know just the right thing to say at the right time, or when to make a move… or how to get a woman interested in them in the first place?
Some guys just seem to know what to do with women… why don’t we?
Isn’t attracting women supposed to be a natural thing to do?
Our ancestors have been meeting and attracting women for MILLIONS of years… if they hadn’t, we wouldn’t be here.
So, up until now, why did we keep on screwing things up? Shouldn’t we have known this stuff instinctively?
The “Missing Piece” That Is
FORCING You To Screw Things Up
With One Woman After Another…
The question of why some men are naturally BAD with women is one I’ve thought about a lot over the last few years…
Here’s something else to think about:
What if I were to tell you that guys who are “naturals” with women have a “secret guide” inside of them that tells them EXACTLY the right thing to say and do with a woman… every time?
What if I were to also tell you that—like a compass—this guide is NEVER WRONG. It always points them in the right direction… and by following it’s advice, it’s virtually impossible to “screw up”…
Men have possessed this guide for MILLIONS of years.
Up until the last few hundred years or so, men who didn’t have it failed to attract a mate.
They didn’t reproduce, and their genes weren’t passed on.
These days—thanks to massive increases in population—guys who don’t have it may “get lucky” and reproduce, but it usually isn’t with someone that they REALLY want…
Of course… guys who DO possess it are the guys who end up with the women all of the other guys want…
I’m sure you’ve known or heard of some of these men throughout your life.
I’m also sure that you—like me—have wondered why they “have it” and YOU don’t.
I’m sure you also wondered what “it” is. What is this “thing” that allows them to attract women so easily?
Now… finally… you’re about to find out…
How Modern Society Has ROBBED YOU Of Your Inherent NATURAL Ability To Attract Women…
This secret to why some men get more women than they can handle is something YOU also possess inside of you.
The only difference between you and the “naturals” is that you haven’t fully developed it.
No one has ever told you what “it” is… and what it’s all about.
This secret is called MANHOOD.
Let me explain…
Awhile back, I made a program called “Mastery With Women And Dating”. After the last night of filming, I was having dinner with my good friend Rick, and chatting with him about the problems that guys have with women.
You’ve probably seen Rick on one of my programs. He’s someone that a lot of men look up to when it comes to understanding women… you won’t find more of a “natural” than this guy.
Rick said something very profound to me…
He said that as he talked to the guys who had attended the program, it was obvious to him that these guys had never learned what it meant to be a MAN.
They had no concept of what “being a man” was about.
They didn’t understand what differentiated a man from a boy, what qualities women are attracted to in men, or how to develop into a man.
So I started to think about this point, and I realized that there was something deeper going on here, and that he had a great point.
By virtue of being born relatively recently, in modern cultures, most of us men were basically not offered the process of “becoming a man” the way it evolved over literally MILLIONS of years.
We missed the initiations, the challenges, and the EARNING of our manhood.
These days, humans are living longer, but we’re maturing slower… and instead of growing up and living an enjoyable, mature life… many men end up staying in the “adolescent” phase of their lives for DECADES.
This “stunted growth” process leaves us with that empty feeling of anxiety and frustration that you might call the “extended childhood syndrome”.
We grew… but as a result… many of us never really “grew up”.
Even worse, we’ve recently been going through a cultural phenomenon called “the men’s movement” that, while doing a lot of good, has obscured the reality that we are, fundamentally, MEN.
And because of this, many of us failed to really become MEN… and develop theinherent natural ability to attract women that is part of BEING A MAN.
I call this phenomenon: “The Mysterious Missing Manhood.”
When developed, your Manhood is like your own “internal compass” that guides you to success in your interactions with women.
A man who is MISSING his Manhood is like a ship trying to sail the ocean with no guidance systems whatsoever.
In other words, he is bound for disaster.
A woman can usually sense instantly if a man is “missing” his Manhood…
Even if you are able to “fool her” with lines and techniques… without the rightinternal guidance … you are bound to “slip up” and make a mistake that reveals the TRUTH.
This is why these little things DO count so much with women…
When you call one time too many… or miss your chance to make a move, a woman doesn’t say to herself, “He calls too much…” or “he’s not confident enough…” No…
What she does do is get the gut feeling that you aren’t a REAL MAN.
And when that happens, the possibility for attraction or a relationship is instantly not an option in her mind… and she can’t control it.
An inner switch flips inside of her, and it creates an invisible barrier… and even though that process and the barrier are invisible, they are still very real… and very obvious to her.
Without this issue handled, the only way to get attention from women is becoming a master of PRETENDING to be someone… and using techniques to cover up your inability to be who you are.
But as I’m sure you know… eventually, this deeper problem WILL cause you to screw things up.
The “Mysterious Missing Manhood” is as painful to women as it is to men… and unless you learn how to develop your Missing Manhood, you will go on feeling lonely, out of control, and desperate… and nothing you try will fix it.
How To Become The Powerful MAN You Were Meant To Be— And Start Attracting The Women You Are Meant To Be With…
Although this is may be the first you’ve heard of all this… I’m guessing that you—like me—have felt like something has been missing from your life for a long time now…
That something can’t be described very well with words…
We know that we SHOULD feel a certain way, and we want to feel that way… maybe it’s strength, or being a protector, or having earned the right to be a leader of others…
Whatever it is, it’s like that nagging feeling that never quite makes it into normal consciousness… it’s like the “splinter in your mind” that Morpheus talks about in the movie The Matrix.
One of the greatest challenges as a man is feeling anxiety, frustration, and the inability to get what you want… but to not know the SOURCE of this… or the reason for it.
What we have known all along is that these feelings hold us back from success with women, and in life.
Feeling that there’s something missing, and wanting to fill that void is bad enough…
What makes it unbearable is that the one thing that we want at every level more than anything—attention and adoration from women—is tied DIRECTLY to this particular issue.
Now… I’d like to show you how to put this all behind you… and finally become the man you were meant to be…
I’ve spent the last several months putting together a comprehensive program that is designed to completely expel the “boy” inside of you from your mind, body, and soul forever… and transform you into the powerful, confident, masculine man thatall women are looking for.
The program is called, “On Being A Man… That Naturally Attracts Women”.
In it, you’ll learn what it takes to REALLY be a man… the qualities men possess that naturally attract women… and how to bring out these hidden qualities in yourself… quickly and easily.
Just as importantly… you’ll also learn the qualities that a man LACKS… and how to rid yourself of the qualities that are sabotaging your success with women… and in life.
But most importantly, I am going to take you through the process of actuallybecoming a man… show you how to actually initiate YOURSELF into manhood… and unlock your own “internal compass” that guides you to success in your interactions with women… every time.
Here are a few more of the powerful things you’ll learn in this program:
- How society and the education system prevented you from ever developing your NATURAL INSTINCTS for attracting women (Every man is born with this ability, but modern culture “records over it” along the way. I’ll show you the fastest way to DEVELOP this REAL ability inside of you… and join the very small percentage of men who attract women without even trying…)
- Do you ever notice that your mind is trying to “trick you” out of success with women? I believe that this comes down to your PROGRAMMED BELIEFS. Inside this program, I’m going to teach you a proven way to BREAK FREE of the deadly limiting beliefs that are holding you back from success with women… quickly and permanently (Whether you are nervous about approaching women, have a hard time seeing young, sexy women being attracted to YOU, or have trouble keeping the interest of women you really like… use this simple exercise to replace your insecurites with MASCULINE CONFIDENCE than women notice and other men envy…)
- The unbelievably common “secret signal” – unknown to 99% of men—that instantly tells a woman whether or not you’re a “real man” (All woman can spot this in the first 30 seconds of meeting you. If you have problems getting women to open up to you when you approach them, it’s probably because you are giving it off. Here’s what it is… and how to eliminate it quickly)
- A “natural flaw” that’s programmed into our human development that prevents normal guys like us from ever becoming “real” men (this one will kill your success with women… unless you recognize and eliminate it)
- How to replace the “Boy Psychology” that governs your actions with women with “Man Psychology”… so you always do what a REAL MAN should do in those tough situations… without even thinking about it (This is THE KEY to auto-pilot success with women – that you can do it WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT IT – whether it’s passing a test she throws at you or knowing exactly what to say on the phone, you’ll learn how to INSTINCTIVELY know the best thing to do…)
- A 3-minute exercise to eliminate the “immature signals” that are RUINING your success with women without you knowing it (Most “naturals” shed these problems around puberty… and you need to drop them NOW to avoid leading women to think you are immature and weak. Fortunately there is a very simple way to do it, which you’ll learn in this program.)
- A simple, step-by-step method for cultivating a “secret quality” that triggers INSTANT ATTRACTION in a woman… often before a guy even opens his mouth (If you’ve ever wondered how some men seem to be able to get any woman’s attention, it’s usually because they possess this biological attraction trigger)
- The surprising mistake that makes a woman see you as a “momma’s boy”… and NOT in a good way… the surprising part, by the way, is that this mistake is probably something you’ve been doing CONSTANTLY with women… without even realizing it (Most men never even realize they are making this ATTRACTION-KILLING mistake. Luckily, it’s an easy fix… and I’ll show you how)
- The hidden link between your upbringing and the fears that are holding you back from attracting women (Whether you’re having trouble approaching women, making a move, or satisfying her in the bedroom… EVERYTHING is somehow connected to your development as a man. I’ll show you how to wipe your slate clean of this “internal B.S.” and reprogram yourself with mature, masculine confidence that “top quality” women look for)
- How to train your mind to LEARN from your mistakes instead of dwelling on them… so you never again make the same mistake with a woman twice… but, more importantly, you aren’t STOPPED when you hit a “snag” – instead, you’ll be MOTIVATED
- The 4 biggest challenges guys face in the path to becoming REAL men… that cause most to “give up” and settle for mediocrity (These 4 things are the foundation of “Manhood”… and a woman knows INSTANTLY if a guy has these things “handled” or not. Here’s how to tackle each one, step-by-step… and finally become the type of man that ALL women want to brag to their friends about meeting)
- As humans we are growing older every day… so if you’re not improving yourself as a person you are not “standing still” but LOOSING GROUND. To stay ahead on the treadmill of life you must be CONSTANTLY evolving and taking yourself to higher levels… and here’s an easy way to guarantee you GAIN GROUND every day (And, of course… stay AHEAD of the other men who are competing for the women you want)
- Ever noticed how you can be “cool and calm” around women that you’re not attracted to, but as soon as the “hottie” is in front of you, the fear and anxiety comes up ALL BY ITSELF? I’m going to teach you how to “keep your head together” and avoid sabotaging yourself when a really hot woman is interested in YOU
- The crucial things a woman NEEDS to “sense” about your personality before she’ll ever consider being with you physically (If you’ve ever had a good date or two with a woman only to end up NEVER seeing her again, it’s probably because you FAILED to convey one or two of these important traits… I’ll show you how to convey this powerful attribute quickly and easily, so women can SENSE it)
- Most men make a very specific type of DEADLY mistake in the beginning stages of a relationship with a woman… that causes them to LOSE GROUND… and usually LOSE HER before she even gets a chance to get to know him. After learning what I’m going to teach you in this program, YOU won’t be one of those guys making that mistake anymore… guaranteed
- Ever noticed that women often say they want a man who “knows where he’s going in life”? Well, it’s true. Women ARE more attracted to these types of men. But what the hell does this MEAN when they say it? In this program, I’m going to teach you the “secret” of how to discover “where you’re going” in life… then subltely convey to women that you are ambitious and driven without actually saying it (By the way, any “quality” woman will tell you that THIS is what makes a guy “relationship material”… and they’ll respond to YOU when you know how to convey it)
- How to eliminate all feelings of “neediness” and build an AWESOME single life for yourself (Of course, when you do this… nearly ALL women will try to “tame you” and get you to settle down with them… Shhhhh!)
- The 4 elements of a healthy and powerful masculine self image, and how to develop them (The key to charisma and charm is the mastery of these 4 things… and I’ll show you how to develop them in DAYS, not years…) I personally believe that once you have a strong positive self-image, combined with high self-esteem, attracting women becomes EASY
- 6 key ways that women “size you up” during the first seconds and minutes of meeting you (Miss any ONE of these and she will see you as a “fraud”… or worse, a FRIEND… so listen up)
- A step-by-step system for becoming the type of “modern-day renaissance man” that women constantly describe as their “ideal man”
- The Formula Of “Cool” – After many years of studying, I’ve finally “cracked the code” of what exactly makes a guy “cool”… and in this program, I’m going to share with you the step-by-step system any guy can use to become the type of cool, charismatic man that men talk about and look up too… and women LOVE to be seen with (hint: most guys who are trying to “be cool” are actually projecting the OPPOSITE image to women… and women see it INSTANTLY. I’ll show you the ART of how to project this quality called “cool” in a NATURAL way that will make you feel confident and laid-back while you do it)
- Women are actually VERY attracted to men who are “sexually confident”. I’m going to teach you a step-by-step method for developing and projecting powerful SEXUAL CONFIDENCE that women can actually FEEL when you are near (Do this simple exercise once a day, and women will begin to get turned on just be being around you…)
- A secret to stop yourself from becoming intimidated by really beautiful women… so even “model-beautiful” women are no longer “out your league” (The best part is when you do this THE WOMAN will see you as one of few men who is “in her league” as well… and be open and receptive to meeting and dating you)
New Secrets You’ll Use To Meet And Attract More Women – Starting Immediately…
I’ve also included several ways to use these secrets to meet women in the real world that you can start using the same day you go through the program.
I’ve never revealed these powerful secrets anywhere else… and you need to hear them.
You’ll also learn…
- The little-known psychological “trick” that makes women helplessly addicted to you… even when they know EXACTLY what you’re doing!
- How to let a woman know within 30 seconds of meeting her that you are the absolute BEST CHOICE she can make
- The right way to make her just a little bit jealous without looking like a jerk (A SUREFIRE way to amp up attraction fast that works every time)
- The 12 universal factors women use to “size up” a man (Here’s how to project each one of them and get on her “hot list” every time)
- The secret “double lives” of women… I’ll show you my special way of knowing if she’s REALLY the angel she claims to be…
- The 2 word greeting that instantly lets women know you “get it”… and paves the way for a fun and flirty conversation
- How to greet a woman in a way that tells her you “get it” and are on her level… or higher
- How to convey to a woman that you can give her an incredible sexual experience without actually saying anything
- The different way “cool” guys talk that tells women they are fun and exciting
- An inside look into a woman’s ATTRACTION RADAR – I’ll show you how women spot “fakes” instantly… AND how to let her know quickly that YOU are someone who i s worth getting to know
- How to use the power of UNPREDICTIBILITY to create feelings of sexual tension in a woman every time she thinks about you… whether you are with her or not!
- A way to use your insecurities in your favor to actually ATTRACT women
- An easy way to silence your negative “inner voices” on the spot when you see a woman you want to meet… and completely eliminate “approach anxiety” and shyness FOR GOOD
The Scientific Way To Masculine Power
To make this program complete, I also brought in a man who I believe to be one of the world’s leading experts in the field of masculine psychology to help me out…
My friend is a psychiatrist who specializes in helping guys break through the barriers that prevent them from becoming and acting like REAL men.
In this program, you’ll learn his unique system for psychological transformation… a system he has already used to help thousands of men.
It’s by far the most powerful way I’ve ever seen to quickly and easily reprogram yourself for success in any area of your life… and since I’ve personally used his techniques to help me achieve many of my own goals, I was thrilled to have him join me.
Here are some of the awesome things you’ll learn from him:
- How to use the operating system of the human mind to quickly “fix” any of the inner issues that are holding you back from ultimate success with women… no matter how deeply rooted they may be (My friend has spent YEARS developing this powerful system and it is truly amazing. There is no faster or more effective path to PERMANENT change… and my friend will show you how to use his simple methods to fix YOURSELF… and keep yourself on track)
- “Jedi Mind Tricks” of psychiatry you can use to blow a woman’s mind and make h
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