Dr. Shefali Tsabary – Conscious Parenting Mastery
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Most parents do NOT realize this but… When you first become a parent, you never just have ONE child.
There’s another child – desperately longing for the same love, care, encouragement, respect and comfort that you already give your children standing in front of you. That other child is you – your “Inner Child”.
You sacrifice everything to give your children a better childhood, education and life than you ever had growing up. But have you neglected your own Inner Child in the process? Were you even aware that you had an Inner Child that needs nurturing? And here’s the greatest tragedy of it all: The neglect you show to your Inner Child will eventually come full-circle. And your children will inherit your same childhood insecurities, doubts and fears, which you’ve worked so hard to shield them from. So ask yourself honestly (and this may be the most important question you’ll ever ask yourself about how you parent)…
Are You Unconsciously Projecting Your Own Unmet
Childhood Needs On Your Children?
99% of parents today are ‘flying blind’.
We’re completely clueless about parenting.
And it’s not your fault.
You were told that being a good parent will come to you naturally.
They’ll say…
“You’ll know what to do when the time comes.”
But don’t you find it crazy that raising your own children – the most important and challenging job we will ever undertake in life – should just be left to… ‘instincts’?
You wouldn’t start driving without first passing your driver’s license, would you?
Yet most parents never learn “how to parent”. So for many of us, we fall back on the only experience we have: How our parents raised us.
And if that fails, we turn to the endless stream of online articles for the newest and latest parenting advice that inevitably go out of fashion, or is contradicted by the next new article – leaving us even more exasperated and confused.
Conscious Parenting however, is not about rigid techniques or strategies.
And the greatest thing we can ever do as parents is to get to the core of who we are so we can show up ‘whole’ to our children and create a connection with your child that he or she secretly craves.
The Modern Parent VS The Conscious Parent
Many parents do not like hearing…
But the current model of parenting that many of us subscribe to today, is heavily based on correcting and controlling our children – because, after all, the parent knows best, right?
So we do all we can to steer and mould our children into what we, the parent, deem to be a ‘good child’.
May it be through disciplining, imposing rules, or even bribery.
And if all else fails, we resort to raising our voices and nagging.
Conscious Parenting flips this entire paradigm on its head.
Instead of viewing our children as these fragile beings that need to be ‘fixed’ and to be told what to do…
Conscious Parenting looks at nurturing an internal and external environment where your child is allowed to come to their own empowering conclusions and make the best decisions for themselves.
Instead of the typical unidirectional parent-child relationship, where the adult ‘bestows’ his or her wisdom on the helpless child…
Conscious Parenting revolves around a cyclical relationship where your child is as pivotal to YOUR emotional and spiritual transformation as you are to theirs.
For some of you, you may feel you’re already on the right path.
But…
You may even be thinking:
“Are You Overestimating
How Conscious You Really Are?”
America’s most-cited living philosopher and leader on human consciousness and development Ken Wilber
famously said that people tend to overestimate their ‘true level’ of consciousness.
Especially among those already immersed in personal growth.
A regular meditation practice and inner-work alone may be a good start.
But it’s not enough to untangle the vast web of hidden beliefs influencing the way you raise your children.
Working with Dr. Shefali, on the other hand, is like having a detective shine a spotlight into the deepest recesses of your unconscious mind.
So you come face-to-face with the childhood and parenting beliefs you never even knew you had.
It’s a skill she has honed for over 20 years.
As both a clinical psychologist with a thriving practice, and as a teacher and student of Vipassana meditation.
Bottom line: When your child’s growth and development is at stake, as Dr. Shefali says:
“You can never be too conscious.”
The Conscious Parenting Mastery Quest is designed to guide you through this challenging introspective process, and to empower you as conscious parents to create the ideal internal and external environments – so your children can thrive and fulfill their potential as their most authentic selves.
Oprah’s Favourite Author
Endorsed by Oprah as “revolutionary” and “life-changing”, Dr. Shefali has been a mainstay
on the primetime TV show making 7 appearances to date
“In the 30 years that I’ve been doing interviews, the best I’ve ever heard.
She’s absolutely revolutionary, and so evolved, that her ideas are really a paradigm shift that can change the world.”
How Dr. Shefali Permanently Shifted Vishen Lakhiani’s Views On Parenting
Vishen Lakhiani is the founder of the world’s largest personal growth company, Mindvalley. He is also the author of the NY Times Bestseller ‘The Code Of The Extraordinary Mind’. He is one of the foremost leaders in the field of human development and founder of numerous brand names in the field of spirituality, consciousness and personal growth from the A-fest festival, to Mindvalley University to the Omvana App.
Vishen has experienced a profound awakening after interviewing Dr. Shefali on stage, in front of a live audience, at Mindvalley University, Tallinn in 2018. It’s then when he realised that he was missing out on an important chapter: parenting. Ever since he’s worked on his conscious parenting practice and this has had a positive impact on his relationship with his children.
“I thought I knew it all. I was the personal growth guy and my kids were doing good in school. But I didn’t realize how much I was still controlling them until I interviewed Dr. Shefali.
“This idea of conscious parenting was game-changing for me and it completely shifted the way I parent. These concepts made me uncomfortable at first, but they really helped create a better bond between me and my children.
“Now, what I would have labelled “bad behavior” from my children, disappeared. The shift was so dramatic, I cannot even recognize my old self as a parent.”
CEO and Founder of Mindvalley
Meet Dr. Shefali Tsabary:
Your Conscious Parenting Expert
Endorsed by Oprah as “revolutionary” and “life-changing”, New York Times bestselling author and owning a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University, New York, Dr. Shefali is the foremost expert in the field of conscious parenting.
Dr. Shefali’s journey into this radically new parenting paradigm arose from her own experience as a parent herself. Reacting irrationally to one of her then 3-year-old daughter’s tantrums, Dr. Shefali became deeply self-aware that her parenting frustrations was never about her child. Rather, it was about her own unmet childhood needs that she was unconsciously projected on her own daughter.
This profound realization led her to dissect and challenge the more ‘controlling nature’ of traditional models of parenting – which, as soon discovered, often puts undue pressure on young children, robbing them of their confidence and autonomy.
Merging western psychology and eastern philosophy, Dr. Shefali espouses a more conscious approach to parenting that centres around honoring our children as sovereign beings, creating real connections with them, and most importantly, raising our own consciousness as parents.
Vishen Lakhiani credits Dr. Shefali’s work in conscious parenting for profoundly changing the way he parents today.
Dr. Shefali teaches conscious parenting on some of the world’s most prominent stages including Mindvalley University.
What You’ll Learn
The 5 Transformational Skills of The Conscious Parent
Conventional parenting courses tend to focus on the child. And how to use rigid, one-size-fits-all tactics to coerce or “trick” a child into modelling a desired behaviour.
Conscious Parenting, on the other hand, is centered around the parent. And how to use powerful mental frameworks that allows you to meet the many parenting challenges we all face with compassion and empathy – at every stage of your child’s growth.
In The Conscious Parenting Mastery Quest, Dr. Shefali will guide you through 5 key transformational shifts that will help turn parenting from chaos to connection.
Superimposing our own thoughts and beliefs on to your child.
Allowing your child to express who they truly are.
Placing undue pressure, both consciously and unconsciously, on your child.
Seeing the world from your child’s eyes in the present moment.
Labelling your child’s behavior as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ or ‘positive’ or ‘negative’.
Accepting your child for who they are as an ever evolving being.
Letting yourself to reach and get triggered by your emotions.
Allowing yourself to observe and fully experience your emotions.
Controlling and coercing your child’s behaviours.
… To Connection
Nurturing the deep, meaningful bonds you and your children crave.
What Dr Shefali’s Students
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The Conscious Parenting Mastery Quest 2019 Schedule
The Conscious Parenting Mastery Quest will systematically shatter the illusions and myths of the traditional parenting model, while introducing you to a radically different paradigm that will help raise your levels of consciousness as a parent and nurture deep, meaningful connections with your children.
For 35 days, you join your conscious parenting expert Dr. Shefali in a series of in-depth daily lessons for just 20-30 minutes daily, designed to simulate a private consultation session with Dr. Shefali (which normally costs thousands of dollars and has a waiting list booked months in advance).
As a result, you’ll develop a powerful mental framework that will lead to your greatest awakening as a parent, heal your own childhood wounds, and give you the tools you need to allow your child to prosper in his or her most authentic self.
Whether you’re a parent to a toddler, young children, teenagers, or young adults who have recently left home, you’ll be able to effortlessly navigate through the many challenges of parenting where your child becomes as integral to your emotional and spiritual transformation as you are to them.
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