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‘Bliss Technique’
The 10 Day Program
A Meditative Technique To Help You Recover Sexual Ecstasy –
Your Primodial Legacy As A Human’
Our 10 Day Program is free with the
Bliss Technique
“Sex wasn’t God’s big mistake.
Judging against sex was humanity’s biggest mistake.
Pleasure is an divine as any cathedral, any temple”*
Dr. Deepak Chopra,
Freedom, Grace and Power
“If you were free of obstructions – if your mind were clear,
your heart open and your body free of tension
you’d experience the energy as an
indescribable pleasure – better than sex.’ *
Dan Milliman,
The Way of the Warrior
Over a hundred years ago, the great Russian writer Leo Tolstoy wrote an extraordinary thing,’
He wrote:
“Man survives earthquakes, epidemics,the horrors of disease, and all the agonies of the soul, but for all time his tormenting tragedy has been, is, and will be the tragedy of the bedroom”
He was right.
Yet, what we are beginning to understand is that, most of us are in fact …………….
‘Dissociated from Sex, one of the greatest spiritual experiences of a biological being’.
We feel very little or nothing.
We just feel very little real sensation in our bodies, almost dead, numb – frozen.
During sexual intercourse, most of us feel only a tiny, tiny tingle of what we should be experiencing.
Why is this?
Because…..
We are all in our heads.
Looking at what is happening, not FEELING it.
None of us are fully present, home in our bodies.
None of us fully inhabit every cell of our bodies.
The rest of our body feels cut off from what is happening.
Blocked.
Frozen.
Like concrete.
We’re ‘dead’ with fear, with self-consciousness.
Self-consciousness
‘The male’s greatest fear is failure, while the
females is of not being loved’.
Irma Kurtz
In a poll this year in the New York Times, one in three men admitted that they actively avoided sex and refused to sleep with prospective partners for fear of failure.
And in a similar poll among 15,000 women, – the simple matter of self-consciousness inhibited orgasm in over 75% of the women interviewed!
This letter from a woman is typical of this problem.
My acute self-consciousness completely inhibits me from completely letting go……and giving myself over to the pleasure I could be feeling…..
I’m worried about how breast and stomach are looking …..and thus distracted from any of the delicious sensations I could be experiencing.
I know we are more critical of their bodies than men are….Yet it’s true: What turns men on is seeing us really excited and lost in pleasure.
But I’m cut off from this kind of abandon because I’m just so absorbed with worrying about how I look, I’ve lose the ability to know and concentrate on how I feel.
Today, we are SO preoccupied with our own chronic self -consciousness, that we feel nothing.
“Where’s my life gone?”
That’s why we tend to feel ‘life is passing us by’.
As one writer once said: “The Divine means nothing unless you can feel it in your body.
Likewise, with sex.
It means nothing unless you can feel it bursting as joy and orgasm in every cell of your body.
But we won’t let or ALLOW ourselves to do that.
And, so we deny ourselves what deep down, everyone
craves :
‘That pleasure in which your entire being vibrates and pulsates undividedly, in harmony with itself and with another human being’.
Eva Pierrakos
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Deep down, that’s it!
Isn’t it?
We want a REAL whole-body-mind connection with another person.
In our lives now.
We WANT Freedom from
our excessive self-consciousness.
How many of us have not felt the desire, as the great Irish poet, Brendan Kennelly once wrote to ……
” ‘drive’ out the demons of embarrassment and inhibition and some, at least of the more crippling forms of shyness and sensitivity.”
So that….. we can feel a real whole bodily feeling of unity with another human being.
Unity consciousness itself.
As the great philosopher Ken Wilber concludes, after a lifetime of reflection:
‘All our various desires, wants, intentions and wishes are ultimately ‘substitute gratifications’ for unity consciousness.”
But today, most of us are so……
‘Constricted’
‘Anxious’
And ‘tense’…….
….that we can only let in and experience a tiny trickle of the energy flow in our bodies when we want to make love.
Thus, when we want to take a relationship further with a partner, we all feel the strong desire to avoid the shame, the humiliation and mortification if sex is a failure.
But here is the dilemma we all face: Sex can be pure ecstasy between you and a partner and our cells literally YEARN for it – or it can be a total disaster.
And so, for most of us, we let FEAR overrule over DESIRE for sexual enjoyment, for sexual union- and we miss out on or postpone what we really want.
And afterwards, we end up alone with ourselves feeling……. EMPTY…..and disappointed.
Yet, the problem is not you.
Or your partner.
Or your desire for sexual union ……
…..But your fear and excessive self-consciousness.
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Marilyn Monroe, sex, pleasure and the Bliss
Technique.
Marilyn Monroe And Pleasure
In tapes made for her psychiatrist Dr Ralph Greenson, Marilyn Monroe gives us all an unique insight into the very personal nature of the ideas that we are talking about here.
Here are her words and beliefs about pleasure, and how it affected her ability to experience real pleasure in her life.
”What I told you when I first became your patient is true. I had never had an orgasm. I well remember you said an orgasm happens in the mind, not the genitals.
You said there was an obstacle in my mind that prevented me from having an orgasm; I felt that I did not deserve to have the greatest pleasure there is; that it had something to do with something sexual that was very wrong, but my pleasure from getting pleasure from it caused my guilt.
That it was buried in my subconscious. Through analysis we would bring it to my conscious mind where we could get to the guilt and free me to be orgasmic.
Well, we sure worked it and it got nowhere. I’d go home and cry and vomit from the frustration. Then you said for the orgasm problem we would try a different approach.
That you would tell me how to stimulate myself, that when I did exactly what you told me to do I would have an orgasm and that after I did it to myself and felt what it was, I would have orgasms with lovers.
(As In the Bliss Technique – you must learn to feel it in yourself first, in your own body first, then with others)
What a difference a word makes. You said I would, not I could.
Bless you doctor. What you say is gospel to me. By now I’ve had lots of orgasms. Not only one, but two and three with a man who takes his time.
I never cried as hard as I did after my first orgasm. It was because of the years I had never had an orgasm. What wasted years. How can I describe to you, a man, what an orgasm feels like to a woman. I’ll try.
Think of a light fixture with a rheostat control. As you slowly turn it on, the bulb begins to get bright, and then brighter and brighter and finally in a blinding flash is fully lit. As you turn it off it gradually becomes dimmer and at last goes out.
Speaking of Oscars, I would win overwhelmingly if the Academy gave Oscars for faking orgasms. I have done some of my best acting convincing my partners I was in the throes of ecstasy”.
For us all, it is this idea- THIS belief that, as we ARE now, “ that we do not deserve to have the greatest pleasure there is’ that stops us from experiencing this health-giving energy in our body.
And, as we have seen, this belief can affect us all from a Hollywood sex goddesses to the ordinary person on the street.
From today, we need to start to think outside the limits of our past experience.
To gradually allow yourself to play around with this new possibility; that pleasure is not bad or wrong.
And it is not limited or scarce.
And as Osho once wrote, misery is the key business of all the organized religions.
He wrote:
“If dropping the misery is as easy as I say, then all these fake religions lose their business. It is a question of their business. Blissfulness has to be made so difficult – almost impossible- that people can only hope for it in some future life, after long arduous journeys.”
But pleasure is simply the true nature of the energy of life itself- an energy that is infinite.
An energy that we have blocked from our bodies by the harsh, frozen nature of all our old beliefs.
When you practice the Bliss Technique to-night, begin to breath deeply now and to relax, REALLY RELAX your body more and more.
Let all the centuries of limitation and fear, that are deposited in the cellular memory of your body be released.
A Thought Experiment!
For a moment, put any morals you may have aside and do this ‘Thought experiment’ with me.
I want you to imagine this beautiful escort is available to you right now.
And for women, imagine now the man of your desires.
A man of deadly charm. See him clearly.
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